A little help planning
You want to make our time together stand out, but perhaps you’re not sure where to start. Here’s a cheat sheet of little preferences, ideas, and suggestions to provoke your thoughts.
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Gifts are never required to get my attention, but are always appreciated. I keep a wishlist here. If you need some ideas because you’d like to surprise me, here are some tips:
Flowers, roses in particular
White wines, mineral but not acidic
Milk chocolates, preferably with a cream or fruit center
A book you’ve read recently and want to chat about
A clothing item made of silk or linen
Golds and rose golds suit my skin tone
Please no: Sparkling wine (including champagne, I’m allergic to all of it), fast fashion, fragrances or toiletries, unused leather products, or fur products
Preferred retailers include:
US Sizing:
Shirts/Blouses: Small
Pants/Skirts/Dresses: 2-4
Brassier: 30-D or 32-B
Undergarments: Small
Shoes: 7.5 (wide) or an 8
Height: 5.5
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Want to know my preferences for in-room snacks or treats to share? Here are some of my favorites.
Libations
Piquepoul blancs in summer, full-bodied chardonnay in winter, fruity kombucha on a warm afternoon, aromatic early grays, and earthy green teas on the colder days.
SnacksArtisanal (very fragrant) cheeses, fresh-cut fruit and vegetables, assorted nuts, and (always) french fries.
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Warm spots for rest and rendezvous? I know a few…
Baltimore:The Ulysses
Hotel Revival
The Ivy
The Four Seasons
The Sagamore Pendry
Washington D.C.:
Pendry Washington D.C. on the Wharf
The Dupont Circle Hotel
Intercontinental Washington DC
Philadelphia
The Guild House Hotel
Anna & Bel
The Westin Philadelphia
Sofitel Philadelphia
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I’m an excellent home-cook so I tend to cook for myself, but when I do venture out for a drink or a meal, here are a couple of highlights.
Bars
Baltimore:
Bluebird
Dutch Courage
Rye
Loch Bar
Washington, D.C.:
The Mirror
Red Derby
Officina
Philadelphia:
Caletta
Bar Lesieur
Franklin Mortgage
Restaurants
Baltimore:
Alma (Venezuelan)
Grano (Italian)
Clavel (Tacos)
The Charleston (New American)
Comptoir Du Vin (French)
Ammoora (Syrian)
Washington, D.C.:
Cranes (Japanese-Spanish Fusion)
Albi (Palestinian)
Maydan (Middle Eastern)
Pisco y Nazca (Peruvian)
Philadelphia:
Parc (French)
Kalaya (Thai)
Bastia (Mediterranean)
Vetri Cucina (Italian)
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As many of you know, I’m an unabashedly political individual, with deeply leftist leanings rooted in my knowledge that there is little separation between the personal and political. My largest concerns and own organizing work have to do with fighting climate change that threatens the lives of millions around the globe, staunch opposition to creeping fascistic movements in the United States and beyond, protections for laborers both foreign and domestic, as well as more local-scale support for vulnerable members of my community. If you’d like to donate money in support of these goals, I recommend the following:

