Encounters

Now let’s see about planning the date, shall we?

Below you’ll find details about both longer and shorter dates, general policies to keep in mind, as well as the delicious prospect of a friend joining us.

Our time together is all our own, designed to foster genuine connection and relaxed, mutual intimacy. This means that the times below are inclusive of all social time and shared activities. If we’d like to retire somewhere together, I’m happy for that to be your hotel or to book us a discreet, comfortable space (usually a local 4+ star hotel) if you help to cover the cost.

Considerations

Proper Introductions

The classic dates. Think of these as times to talk, to learn, to linger, to inch towards the intimacy we’ve both been building from the moment you hit send.

Dinner (or lunch)
Up to six hours.
3500 USD

Let’s grab a drink
Up to four hours.
2600 USD

Learning Each Other

These are escapes just for us. For late nights followed by sleeping in and staying in bed too long, for brunches full of laughter, for long, meandering walks, and all the little adventures we can find.

Let’s spend the night
Up to 14 hours.
6000 USD

A day together
Up to 24 hours.
8000 USD

A weekend
Up to 48 hours
12000 USD

A true adventure
Up to a week
Inquire here

Stolen Moments

Sometimes life won’t let us get away. These are short, curated tastes, generally available to pre-existing lovers. In special circumstances, this can also serve as a peek into everything that could be.

A cup of coffee
Up to three hours.
2100 USD

A passing fling
Up to two hours.
1500 USD

For the curious but uninitiated…

This world is new for everyone at least once. Let’s take a second to say hello, to break the ice, the dream about things to come. All dates are purely social.

A social introduction
A social chat in a public setting.
A generous hour-ish.
500 USD

An introduction call
Let’s schedule a call to get acquainted. Only available once our date is booked.
A generous 30-ish minutes.
150 USD

Ready to say hello?

Introduce yourself here

Policies and Practicalities

Couples

My favorites. As a polyamorous person, I have deep admiration for loving couples who are looking to explore romantic and intimate desires in ways that are respectful and mutually satisfying. I also just love the dynamics that can evolve with more people in the room! For this reason, I very intentionally will not ask for an extra fee to meet with couples. I will ask, instead, for a minimum booking of four hours, so that we can all take our time and get comfortable with each other and, of course, am happy to accept any extra gift that you might want to provide.

Deposits and screening

Every booking requires screening information and a 20% deposit in order to make it onto my calendar. Screening can consist of two of the following: 1) a picture of your ID, 2) a link to your professional profile, and 3) references from at least two other companions you’ve seen in the last year. Deposits can be paid via CashApp, Venmo (+5% for transfer fees), or Vanilla Visa gift card (sent via email).

Overnights

Overnights are geared to allow for the time stretching from dinner through breakfast (roughly 6/7 pm through 9/10 am). During this time, we will need to eat both meals and I do require at least 8 hours of uninterrupted sleep and a spot of private time to get ready in the morning. If you’d like to add time for an inspection of our room pre-dinner or a leisurely morning with brunch, I will ask for an additional gift of 1000 USD on either side of our time together.

Zero-Tolerance Policy

As a generally friendly and affable person by nature, I’m apt to see the best in peoples’ words and intentions, especially as we all learn more about the world, our communities, and those different from ourselves. You’ve absolutely no need to mince your words or walk on eggshells with me. This being said, I have a zero-tolerance policy for explicit racism, homophobia, transphobia, age-ism, religious discrimination, or disparagement of other peoples’ bodies or abilities. Expression and indulgence of these mean-spirited attitudes will result in my ending our time together early, with the partial remuneration of the gift commensurate to the time already spent.

Sliding Scales

Companionship can be an enriching and life-changing experience. I so cherish the ability to cultivate loving, joyful, and exciting spaces of exploration with people who help to support me financially. I also realize that the requested gifts may be beyond the reach of many for reasons entirely outside their control. For this reason, I offer sliding scales (ranging from 50%-100%, commensurate to income) to the following groups: LGBTQIA+ community members, sex workers, mid-to-low income solo parents, and primary/secondary educators. Remember, these are offered at my discretion and, because they are designed to make the time available to community members who would otherwise not reach out, they often require a fair amount of honest disclosure and conversation.

Friends

I make a point of making friends wherever I go. Consequently, I have a number of brilliant, beautiful playmates with whom I share riveting dynamics. They are based both locally and all over the country and all, pending availability, are FMTY friendly. Let’s invite them to join us?

Remember that my friends have availability and professional boundaries that may differ from my own. For the sake of equity, I also ask that you match the higher hourly rate between whichever two (or, dare I say, three?) of us that you choose to spend time with.